Comments on: Relationships http://www.alkadwivedi.net/relationships/ Mon, 08 Sep 2008 11:33:11 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6 By: jarvarm http://www.alkadwivedi.net/relationships/#comment-42102 jarvarm Tue, 21 Aug 2007 09:08:35 +0000 http://www.alkadwivedi.net/relationships/#comment-42102 I agree with you totally, Alka. Sanjay's deeds and their after-effects would be a great lesson for many.. I agree with you totally, Alka.
Sanjay’s deeds and their after-effects would be a great lesson for many..

]]> By: prancer http://www.alkadwivedi.net/relationships/#comment-41823 prancer Tue, 14 Aug 2007 20:52:35 +0000 http://www.alkadwivedi.net/relationships/#comment-41823 Wish Everyone A Happy Independence Day Jai Hind Vande Mataram :-) Wish Everyone A Happy Independence Day

Jai Hind

Vande Mataram

:-)

]]> By: sanguine http://www.alkadwivedi.net/relationships/#comment-41644 sanguine Sat, 11 Aug 2007 15:29:29 +0000 http://www.alkadwivedi.net/relationships/#comment-41644 i did think the punishment meted out to him was a tad harsher , but here i am being biased coz i dont really know what the law says . but my heart went out to his sister running from pillar to post . yes , u said it well it is the family which pays for their acts . look at the family in b'lore which wl have to live with social stigma , loss of son ... the pain . i cant imagine being ever happy if someone i love goes through all that , whether it is their fault or not , criminal or not . i did think the punishment meted out to him was a tad harsher , but here i am being biased coz i dont really know what the law says .
but my heart went out to his sister running from pillar to post . yes , u said it well it is the family which pays for their acts . look at the family in b’lore which wl have to live with social stigma , loss of son … the pain . i cant imagine being ever happy if someone i love goes through all that , whether it is their fault or not , criminal or not .

]]> By: wavesnsands http://www.alkadwivedi.net/relationships/#comment-41580 wavesnsands Wed, 08 Aug 2007 11:35:20 +0000 http://www.alkadwivedi.net/relationships/#comment-41580 hi alka We have a guy who made mistakes, who didn't think about the people he would leave behind to suffer, who apparently kept borrowed weapons form the mafia because his family was threatened, who already knew that crimes are punishable(having already spent time in jail), who apparently(again) seems to have had enough regret and repenting to last a life-time...and he is sent back..why?? Because it is justice and every law breaker deserves to be punished. But your view on it is a very different than what the media and the film industry are professing. Why did he not think of his family? I so agree with you. It is important to have that somebody to think of when you take decisions. And having such people around you is not enough(look at the great man he had for a father!!); respecting their feelings and constantly reminding yourself about them is also necessary. hi alka
We have a guy who made mistakes, who didn’t think about the people he would leave behind to suffer, who apparently kept borrowed weapons form the mafia because his family was threatened, who already knew that crimes are punishable(having already spent time in jail), who apparently(again) seems to have had enough regret and repenting to last a life-time…and he is sent back..why?? Because it is justice and every law breaker deserves to be punished.
But your view on it is a very different than what the media and the film industry are professing. Why did he not think of his family? I so agree with you. It is important to have that somebody to think of when you take decisions. And having such people around you is not enough(look at the great man he had for a father!!); respecting their feelings and constantly reminding yourself about them is also necessary.

]]> By: Praney http://www.alkadwivedi.net/relationships/#comment-41544 Praney Tue, 07 Aug 2007 07:25:54 +0000 http://www.alkadwivedi.net/relationships/#comment-41544 You are right in a way Manish, but in my view it's not only about keeping an illegal weapon. How many of us can contact gangsters or terrorists for buying even a pen (leave the weapon) ? Can YOU get a phone number of any terrorist for me? Or lets say will you even share a common room for even five minutes with any Anti Indian Terrorist those who can kill any innocent Indian for bloody jehaad or such crap? And how can you say he was not intend to use it? It is much more than keeping an illegal weapon (though the punishment is meant for the said offence) but he was in contact with underworld and persons accused in bomb blasts. If he was not aware of those guys at the time of deal, did he voluntarily went to police for information? Unawareness of law can never be excuse for committing a crime. You are right in a way Manish, but in my view it’s not only about keeping an illegal weapon.

How many of us can contact gangsters or terrorists for buying even a pen (leave the weapon) ? Can YOU get a phone number of any terrorist for me? Or lets say will you even share a common room for even five minutes with any Anti Indian Terrorist those who can kill any innocent Indian for bloody jehaad or such crap? And how can you say he was not intend to use it?

It is much more than keeping an illegal weapon (though the punishment is meant for the said offence) but he was in contact with underworld and persons accused in bomb blasts. If he was not aware of those guys at the time of deal, did he voluntarily went to police for information?

Unawareness of law can never be excuse for committing a crime.

]]> By: Manish http://www.alkadwivedi.net/relationships/#comment-41511 Manish Mon, 06 Aug 2007 07:35:21 +0000 http://www.alkadwivedi.net/relationships/#comment-41511 I think 15-18 months of solitary confinement in Tihar jail was sufficient for keeping illegaly a gun, not to intended to use it ever. The fine print of keeping that gun was a terrorist act - I think 99.99% Indians must not be knowing. How many of us actually know about the various acts of IPC, forget TADA? I think 15-18 months of solitary confinement in Tihar jail was sufficient for keeping illegaly a gun, not to intended to use it ever.

The fine print of keeping that gun was a terrorist act - I think 99.99% Indians must not be knowing. How many of us actually know about the various acts of IPC, forget TADA?

]]> By: Prudent Indian http://www.alkadwivedi.net/relationships/#comment-41399 Prudent Indian Fri, 03 Aug 2007 08:45:11 +0000 http://www.alkadwivedi.net/relationships/#comment-41399 Alka,I feel any sympathy for Sanjay is 'grossly' misplaced.For me it is important that justice has been meted out. indeed,it would have been 'very shameful' had he been shown any sympathy for any other reason than the pure merit of facts. As for relations and relationship,well as it being very subjective and depends on individuals and this is "Precisely" what Sanjay ignored and is paying for.He could not have chosen the worst people to befriend with! PI Alka,I feel any sympathy for Sanjay is ‘grossly’ misplaced.For me it is important that justice has been meted out. indeed,it would have been ‘very shameful’ had he been shown any sympathy for any other reason than the pure merit of facts.

As for relations and relationship,well as it being very subjective and depends on individuals and this is “Precisely” what Sanjay ignored and is paying for.He could not have chosen the worst people to befriend with!
PI

]]> By: Alka http://www.alkadwivedi.net/relationships/#comment-41378 Alka Thu, 02 Aug 2007 20:13:30 +0000 http://www.alkadwivedi.net/relationships/#comment-41378 <b>Prancer,</b> thank you very much for such valuable links. Due to people like him, I am sitting safely in my home and doing whatever I want. I don't write much otherwise I WILL START BEING CYNICAL ABOUT MAINSTREAM MEDIA AND SECULARISTS. Prancer, thank you very much for such valuable links. Due to people like him, I am sitting safely in my home and doing whatever I want. I don’t write much otherwise I WILL START BEING CYNICAL ABOUT MAINSTREAM MEDIA AND SECULARISTS.

]]> By: Alka http://www.alkadwivedi.net/relationships/#comment-41377 Alka Thu, 02 Aug 2007 20:10:57 +0000 http://www.alkadwivedi.net/relationships/#comment-41377 <b>AmitL,</b> God, fate, destiny all are very complicated subjects for me. I never understand the way God functions. And what I see, He seems to be a very bad manager. Not managing things properly. <b>Manish,</b> What do you think about the punishment part? too much? too little? he should be set free? <b>Sunrise,</b> welcome. What you have said I fully endorse your view. You are not harsh but in extreme haste. But sir/mam, if you have cared to read my post with a bit of attention, you would have realized I WAS blaming Sanjay Dutt and other celebrities for the plight of their families not the judiciary in the first paragraph. AmitL, God, fate, destiny all are very complicated subjects for me. I never understand the way God functions. And what I see, He seems to be a very bad manager. Not managing things properly.

Manish, What do you think about the punishment part? too much? too little? he should be set free?

Sunrise, welcome. What you have said I fully endorse your view. You are not harsh but in extreme haste. But sir/mam, if you have cared to read my post with a bit of attention, you would have realized I WAS blaming Sanjay Dutt and other celebrities for the plight of their families not the judiciary in the first paragraph.

]]> By: prancer http://www.alkadwivedi.net/relationships/#comment-41372 prancer Thu, 02 Aug 2007 17:22:19 +0000 http://www.alkadwivedi.net/relationships/#comment-41372 http://www.rediff.com/news/2007/jul/31jk.htm I salute Col. Vasanth Venugopal and people like him. Vande Mataram http://www.rediff.com/news/2007/jul/31jk.htm

I salute Col. Vasanth Venugopal and people like him.

Vande Mataram

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