Comments on: Online Match-Making http://www.alkadwivedi.net/online-match-making/ Sat, 22 Nov 2008 06:31:05 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6 By: Alka http://www.alkadwivedi.net/online-match-making/#comment-25163 Alka Fri, 01 Sep 2006 18:13:15 +0000 http://www.alkadwivedi.net/2006/08/30/online-match-making/#comment-25163 <b>Prancer,</b> as you have said,"nothing can come par with reality as such." Its 100% true. <b>Sudipta,</b> net really gives ample time to think and react. That's why e-mail friendships look so perfect. :-) How's life at a totally new place? What about your cooking? Can we get an update on it in your upcoming posts? :-) <b>Mallik,</b> I think, I have seen this programme too. And most of the people still behaves like cave dwelling ancestors. :-) But reality is, apart from reproducing, humans need other things too. If the partner is not understanding, the spark will die down from the relationship. That's why even successful males don't have a very happy partners. Prancer, as you have said,”nothing can come par with reality as such.” Its 100% true.

Sudipta, net really gives ample time to think and react. That’s why e-mail friendships look so perfect. :-) How’s life at a totally new place? What about your cooking? Can we get an update on it in your upcoming posts? :-)

Mallik, I think, I have seen this programme too. And most of the people still behaves like cave dwelling ancestors. :-) But reality is, apart from reproducing, humans need other things too. If the partner is not understanding, the spark will die down from the relationship. That’s why even successful males don’t have a very happy partners.

]]> By: Mallik http://www.alkadwivedi.net/online-match-making/#comment-25154 Mallik Fri, 01 Sep 2006 17:19:23 +0000 http://www.alkadwivedi.net/2006/08/30/online-match-making/#comment-25154 Perhaps carl jung can throw some light on it... As far as i see it its a mix of all the three you said, acting dynamically. Once it was said in discovery channel that the basic tendency of any human being is to extend his DNA pool, to that extent, he would need to survive and hence seek acceptable, seek partners to extend progeny. The male spiecies by nature of the reproductive system need to mate with as many, and the female need to chose the most successful one. and they say, this theory perhaps explains the social and family choices... funny...this world never stops to amuse me.... Perhaps carl jung can throw some light on it…
As far as i see it its a mix of all the three you said, acting dynamically.

Once it was said in discovery channel that the basic tendency of any human being is to extend his DNA pool, to that extent, he would need to survive and hence seek acceptable, seek partners to extend progeny. The male spiecies by nature of the reproductive system need to mate with as many, and the female need to chose the most successful one. and they say, this theory perhaps explains the social and family choices…

funny…this world never stops to amuse me….

]]> By: Sudipta Chatterjee http://www.alkadwivedi.net/online-match-making/#comment-25112 Sudipta Chatterjee Thu, 31 Aug 2006 06:41:21 +0000 http://www.alkadwivedi.net/2006/08/30/online-match-making/#comment-25112 Ahh... so to the point again! But I guess there is more to an online dating service that makes the other person (potential mate?) seem so perfect: For one, you can think before you type; and more importantly, the body language and the subtle messages do not come into the picture. So the image of the person at the other end of the line is more what you dream of (or maybe like to think), than what reality may actually throw at you. Good post... keep them coming! Ahh… so to the point again! But I guess there is more to an online dating service that makes the other person (potential mate?) seem so perfect: For one, you can think before you type; and more importantly, the body language and the subtle messages do not come into the picture. So the image of the person at the other end of the line is more what you dream of (or maybe like to think), than what reality may actually throw at you. Good post… keep them coming!

]]> By: prancer http://www.alkadwivedi.net/online-match-making/#comment-25093 prancer Wed, 30 Aug 2006 18:31:21 +0000 http://www.alkadwivedi.net/2006/08/30/online-match-making/#comment-25093 yes absolutely right...the net provides and undue advantage in the form of a garb which reality doesn't...people do get misled many a time...expectations come crashing down eventually...probably a more interactive media catering to audio n video may prove as a window but even then nothing can come par with reality as such...good food for thought from you as always :) yes absolutely right…the net provides and undue advantage in the form of a garb which reality doesn’t…people do get misled many a time…expectations come crashing down eventually…probably a more interactive media catering to audio n video may prove as a window but even then nothing can come par with reality as such…good food for thought from you as always :)

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